
- Bojangles, four months
Someone recently left a lovely comment on this photo when it was uploaded to our Facebook site. She was congratulating us on how great he looks and said, “Nice job, you know your stuff!”
Compliments are always nice, but it made me stop and think about that and about just how much we really did ‘know our stuff’.
Bo is our first orphan foal and none of us had ever raised an orphan foal or known anyone who had. To say we were the blind leading the blind was pretty accurate! What we did have on our side was a tremendous amount of luck (beginning that first night of his miraculous rescue), a huge amount of passion, a good deal of intuition, some much-needed financial support to help us meet the demands of his $380 per fortnight formula costs, a willingness to research, learn and question, and an exceptionally hard-working and dedicated foster carer and her understanding family who were able to rearrange their lives to accommodate the needs of this precious, fragile life.
We were lucky he made it through the first night in our care (he needed emergency hydration and tube feeding from the vet). We were lucky when his foster mare, Millie, turned up around eight weeks later and was so willing to foster him. We were lucky when we decided we needed to find Bo another foal to help him continue his socialisation skills.
We’ve had to use a good deal of intuition, particularly in the early days when there was a lot of pressure from differing opinions about how to proceed and several people offered us mares to trial as foster mares but none of them ‘felt right’. (An unsuccessful fostering can be disastrous, with the foal being seriously injured or killed.) We’ve had to think outside the box, and when we changed his formula to a cheaper brand and his behaviour went right off the rails, we had to face some pretty heavy pressure from people who claimed the only way to manage it was to physically hit him, kick him and tell him who’s boss. Instead, we thought backwards and could link much of the behaviour to the change in formula and realised he had a lactose intolerance, switching him back to the more expensive brand that was a low lactose formula.
Bo’s journey hasn’t been perfect or easy. He’s faced some big challenges, something pretty typical of orphan, bottle-raised foals. Not least of which is his limited understanding of horse behaviour, his refusal to eat food (he has only just recently taken his first nibbles of grass), his constant scouring, his unwillingness to connect with other horses, and his difficult behaviour around people. But we keep making strides forward. With each new month of his being in our care, we find a new approach (one that is kind, compassionate and horse-appropriate) to help him develop that little bit more.
And we’re a long way from finished yet. But what an incredible journey it has been so far! We’ve been very lucky to have had the opportunity to save this little man’s life and give him the best start we can possibly achieve.
Did we know our stuff? Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe we did but we just didn’t realise it. Maybe luck has carried us over the bumps and filled in the holes. Whatever it’s been, it has been a great lesson in trust, faith and right intention.